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    So today was awkward.

    I walk to a meeting and see a woman standing at the entrance/ front desk lobby or whatever you call it of my company. I say hi to her and she smiles back at me saying hi too. Then I realize I went out on a date with her like half a year ago when we matched on bumble.

    She's really cute but we didn't seem to match well for something serious. So a few days after we met I was in a silly mood and sent her a topless gym selfie, no dick pic. And I asked her if she was maybe up for some casual fun. She then blocked me on Whatsapp. I think she was just not into me but the pic was just an excuse to block me.

    Anyway now I of course regret it a bit to have done that as sometimes we forget how small the world is. She's a Keyaccount Manager of another company and had a business meeting at ours for a presentation.

    Anyways, I know I will get downvoted but that's a little story of my day.

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    • Downvoted because it sounds like you didn’t take this opportunity to be a better person
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    • How do you know? I just said I regret itNBQ00
    • Loool

      “No dick pic, i’m not creepy”      scarabin
    • 'I think she was just not into me'
      yeah, workplace sexual harrasssment can do that.      face_melter
    • We don't work together. Actually she worked in a completely different field when we met half a year ago and we had no idea of each other's work places.NBQ00
    • You regret it because you saw her again and you felt bad?! Ever consider how she feels?
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    • I only asked if she was up for some casual fun and a sexy gym selfie that other women appreciated. But I understand not all women respond the sameNBQ00
    • It was just a simple question. She's not a super religious person to be offended. She could've just said no. I didn't send her anything explicit or a dick picNBQ00
    • Fuckin creepy dude sending a topless pic and then asking to hang out. Sorry but that is so goddamn weird.monospaced
    • Wtf?Fax_Benson
    • You assume all women appreciate a totally unsolicited sexy gym pic for making the mistake of smiling at you out of professional courtesy. Dude.monospaced
    • I loled so you get an upvoteYakuZoku
    • The shirtless pic is desperate but the problem is that you didn’t feel bad for her when she blocked you over it.
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    • Instead, you say you felt bad for yourself because you had to go through seeing her again? Dude think about how she feels about it
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    • You’re thinking, “wow this is going to be awkward” but she’s thinking “fuck I may have to quit my job to get away from this creep”
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    • Exactly. You’re forever that guy who sent the pic instead of talking to her like a normal person. Her friends probably know too.monospaced
    • You guys are fucking exaggerating. As if I sexually harassed her. Jesus. Calm down. Every time you make a huge fuss.NBQ00
    • I don't live in the fucking religious mid-west or Taliban occupied Afghanistan where a gym mirror selfie is a crime.NBQ00
    • No clue. Not even close.Fax_Benson
    • It was borderline sexual harassment. Sending partially nude sexual pictures of yourself asking for “casual fun” is basically asking for sex.monospaced
    • You did this after a workplace interaction. No it won’t be considered actual harassment, I do feel confident she felt it was you coming on creepymonospaced
    • Your instinct that this was awkward is spot on. It’s outrageously awkward, and there’s no doubt she felt awkward. Because you made it that way. You.monospaced
    • Ok mono, preach brotherNBQ00
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