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  • sarahfailin0

    I'm going to dinner at my best friend's girlfriend's in the suburbs. He has been with her for a while now, and since they moved in together I don't see him much anymore. I don't get along with her much because of repeated bad impressions she's made on me (complaining about stuff, fighting with him in public, generally being a stick in the mud).

    Got any ideas how I can go into this with an open mind and try to give her another chance?

    • I'd suggest: Go into it with an open mind, and give her another chance.Nairn
    • get drunk, get chill. get in the state where you wave your arms in the air like you don't care.pango
    • Get over your own personal feelings about her... sounds like you witnessed he and her interacting like 'normal humans'. :) If that's too much for you—don't go.PonyBoy
    • They don't drink!sarahfailin
    • Drink before you get there. Drink on the way there. Party on the street with random strangers.pango
    • ^good advice.sarahfailin
    • take some special cakes for dessert.microkorg
    • they're bickering in the carsarahfailin
    • Did you bring popcorn?pango
    • kill me!sarahfailin
    • Your friend chose her. His cross to carry. You won't change his mind. Maybe some ganja to help take the edge off..sea_sea
    • Also maybe try to find common ground with her. If all else fails, spike the punch.sea_sea
    • sit down, start eating, then standup throw the table and all the food over and start crying, screaming "I miss you duuuddddeeee"fadein11
    • ^this is what I didsarahfailin
    • good ladfadein11

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