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    If the word 'divorce' appears often in your thoughts during the first three months of marriage... should you be concerned?

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    • yes?pango
    • also none of my relationship lasted longer than a year. so...pango
    • What's causing those thoughts? If it's a matter of getting used to being married, give it time. If it's stuff that was bothering you before saying "I do"...i_monk
    • just have a kid, that fixes everythingmonospaced
    • lol @monojaylarson
    • You get the same exact thoughts dating someone too...robotron3k
    • maybe?
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    • robo is an MGTOW monkmonospaced
    • We discussed divorce in a fun way during the 1st year. Like "if we split, then I get these albums". It was silly, but it definitely was healthy to talk openly.ayport
    • ^ As a product of divorce, it was always on my mind. So, roll with it. If you're able to be open and honest, then you know your good.ayport
    • Three months? Ouch!OBBTKN
    • Now if, “cruise-ship” & “second degree murder” are in your thoughts, then be concernedfuturefood
    • It's called the 7 minute itch.utopian
    • lol monospaced first commentsandpipe
    • No one knows the future. Some people are better off getting divorced early, but they can't know it would have gotten worse.
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    • If you're thinking about divorce "often" you should probably talk to your spouse about it. No one here knows your situation
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    • yup, get out before kidstimeless
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