Breakups
Breakups
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- shellie0
It's a blessing. I spent over a decade with someone who turned out not to want kids even though at first he said he did. smh.
If parenthood is something you want, keep moving toward that. Set things up in your life that support that. The right woman will come along.
I don't know how it will go because it's so new, but i think I met someone really serious about starting a family. Not, like, tomorrow. But, definitely in short order, if things were to get serious. I appreciate us being on the same page about that. I'm older now. I can't wait another 10 years to see if it just organically happens like magic. This is a decision you actively make every day you know that's the life you want to live.
- Also, not a bad thing for her to know she doesn't want kids. It's better than her going through w/it and her feeling a type of way about u and/or the child.shellie
- I also broke up with an ex once that wanted kids, but my age at the time and the fact that I didn't feel as strongly for him, it was clear the party was over.shellie
- I broke up with someone when I was 18 because of this issue. It's as serious as life gets.CyBrainX