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A question for all the QBN parents or marrieds here (these questions are mutually exclusive)
1. Has being married changed the way you work or relate to the people you work with? Perhaps even work itself?
2. Has having children or an additional responsibility (like a child) changed the way you work with others, or even possibly how you're in a relationship with others or those in your community?
3. Has either changed your goals from when you did not have a kid (kids)?
- #3 was not clear. Has having either changed your goals from when these things were not present.notype
- my baby momma tried to kill me with a steak knife once.docpoz
- i got the hell outta dodgedocpoz
- then she put a restraining order on me. fuck it..ill see the kid when hes 18docpoz
- one thing about father. he'll never bullshit his kids.docpoz
- other than that i think she's a fine person. I didnt know the system had her hooked on the brain pills. they milked her dry $$$docpoz
- i guess she needed em. but i think wine and growing up would have helpeddocpoz
- she has a fine familial support system. they are good people.docpoz
- my personal goals have remained the same: follow my personal path of dreams and realistic productivity projectsdocpoz
- im still debating whether the pills are a scamdocpoz
- YES on all 3. All in positive ways.monospaced
- Having kids puts things in perspective. Work doesn't seem as important. You learn. patience and how to apply it to relationships and tasks.monospaced
- mono, interesting. I'm finding that there's something really special about working alongside leadership who have little ones... I'll say more laternotype
- the "there's gotta be more to this", haunts me these days. time for a new way of living.notype
- thanks for your perspective mononotype
- yes on all three. I used to think of myself first and now i think of the fam first. I still have those friends that give me shit for not going out..HijoDMaite
- Im one of those friends.
not towards hijo tho.pango - Yeah, they are usually single or shitty dads.HijoDMaite
- lol
i will not lose another friend to marriage and kids!!pango - notype. thinking about making someone babies mama? :Ppango
- yes, for better and worse. Any relationship will get heightened. So fix all small quarks before.
Dreams / goals - fucking hard work. Still trying to finish mymugwart - book and my kid is 9 now, used to be able to get a writing project complete ever 12-18 months.
kids + working in a cooperation isnt fun at allmugwart - Yes, all positive, all constructive. My baby was born 3 mo. ago, and and am getting married in january, but still counts.maquito
- I feel less self-interested, but still doing my shit. Still playing in my band, still having my beers with friends,maquito
- however, appreciating much more the time I spend with everyone. Specially with the family.maquito
- Yes to all 3. Hard re-evaluation of what is important and what make you happy in every aspect of life. Never been a big "goals" guy though tbhstoplying