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Out of nowhere, my sisters husband, and father of my niece (10yrs) was diagnosed with cancer yesterday.
MRI today to know if it has spread.
This guy, this guy, is honestly the best guy you have ever met.
I am going through some of my own problems, he called me up last week and said let's go have a beer and a chat, sometimes we need to talk, and stick together etc etc.
FFS. Not him.
I am just trying to stay positive, and calm for my sister, obviously.
TBH I am tearing up writing this, I don't know, I just feel like it is one hit after another lately.
Anyone ever feel like that? I am sure.
He is just genuinely the nicest guy I have ever met. I really mean that.
I am staying positive, because I just refuse to accept that this will happen to someone like him. I mean, I have no chance if this is the case.
He is not a smoker, not a big drinker.
I love him, and I love my sister and my niece, and I just want things to be ok.
This was not the situation 24hrs ago. Life is crazy.
#fuckyoucancer
- sorry to hear that rabbitmoldero
- i hope he beats it!! sorry you're going through this.cbass99
- Sorry man :(pango
- Tough news, sorry to hear. Cancer is not the death sentence like it was. There's been some real positive advancements in treatment.IRNlun6
- :(
<3PonyBoy - #fuck!trooperbill
- So sorry. :(sea_sea
- "Cancer is not the death sentence like it was" I said those exact words today...rabbit
- If caught early cancer has a high survival rate.Hayoth
- Guess what guys!!!? The cancer has NOT spread! Operation is Saturday!!! YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY...rabbit
- Thank you for your support guys!! xoxrabbit
- However, it makes sick to think that virtually everyone on this planet is impacted by cancer. It's no longer some rare disease.Hayoth
- I truly believe, this is all part of lifes preparation, for the final bow. These, sort of 'tests'. Love all.rabbit
- Yeah FUCK CANCER!pango
- sorry to hear and all the best to you and your familyfadein11
- best to you and your family. sounds like he would overcome.yurimon
- tell me about it, cancer is a bitch, last year a good friend of ours out of nowhere had their 6 year old boy diagnosed with DIPG (brain cancer) now he has...HijoDMaite
- months to live and absolutely no hope for him. they are flying around the country trying out experimental treatments but nothing so far. sorry about your bro..HijoDMaite
- in-law. your sister and niece are going to need you more than ever through this. be strong for them.HijoDMaite
- sorry to hear it, man :/
if it helps any i've got two very close friends that had cancer and beat itscarabin - I feel you. My dad had lung cancer, my best friend at leukemia and my sister had ALS all at them same time. Best friend survivedshellie
- Best thing you can give them is emotional support. Your sister will need a break. Take the kids out to play. Or watch the kids and your broinlaw so she canshellie
- Get her nails done or something. mow the lawn. Help with errands. It's the little things you can do to relieve stress.shellie
- If you have any questions along the way you can always email me. I've seen a lot.shellie
- Lots of great notes and words of encouragement. <3 Big hug rabbit, glad there's sunshine ahead for you all. Group hug.sea_sea