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met a perfect 10 this evening in Pasadena. was asked to come back to her place with her friends. she was gorgeous. perfect. close by in the valley.
i said no and went home to drink myself away where i type this.
my ex that floats in my head even after 4 years, shes married now. ive completely lost myself since she left. now i get people asking my friends if im gay because i dont chase those women.
the combo of being shy and not able to let lose and dance let alone knowing how to dance. I try then feel like a idiot because im dancing to some random club song i actually hate at a club i dont even really like.. first the women are intrigued that im not all over them when they throw themselves at me. then they come to the conclusion im gay.
to me its shyness, amazed at someone showing interest.. then not knowing what to do followed by disappearing out the door. i dont think im a ugly guy and have been told im not. I just dont know how to talk to women anymore.
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- There is no try, do or do not.********
- You just have ti get yourself amongst it. Throw yourself in and you'll be forced to swim, so to speak. The more you talk to women the more you'll be...********
- Comfortable with it. Next opportunity that arises just fucking go for it with reckless abandon, what's the worst that can happen? Fuck it, if you fuck up..********
- Who cares? What's the worst that can happen? Chances are you won't fuck up and the more you start noticing the women reciprocate the more confidence you'll..********
- get. Nothing is going to change without you making the change. Throw yourself in next time. Every time. And before you know it you'll be used to it...********
- ...and it'll come naturally. Motherfucker Jones.********
- Confidence is the sexiest thing to a woman as I'm sure you know. Fake it at first and when you notice how well they respond it'll start to come naturally********
- The hottest chicks are the most insecure in my opinion. If they are throwing themselves at you already you really just have to smile and ask them a question.monospaced
- Set is right about confidence. I'm not that good looking but it works!monospaced
- just keep in mind chicks are like twice as insecure as you are and in the end they're just goofy fun loving people who dork out over shitscarabin
- just think of yourself on a death bed and ask. what will i regret if i dont follow through with the girls i want.yurimon
- oh man dude, you still got it. go to the places that are most comfy to you and you'll meet women who have the same interest.bklyndroobeki
- agree with droobeki. sounds like you're looking in the wrong places. dancing should have no part in this********
- you're not alone.cbass99
- I can relate. i am way more out going then i used to be though but my ex races through my mind and she wants nothing to do with me. she is on a bad path.Hayoth
- Just say yes to the experience. And when all else fails, have an extra shot of liquid courage to break the ice.sea_sea
- pockets... off topic but what was the music like?bklyndroobeki
- There is no try, do or do not.