Marriage.
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- cruddlebub0
to be honest, marriage is a big deal, and if you were willing enough to go through the whole getting married malarky in the first place then you should take the time to try and resolve it.
if it's impossible and you are at the very VERY end of it all then yeah, ending is the only option, your kids are very young and wont remember it, or at least much of it.
i have been with my fiancee for 9 years this year, we've been engaged for 7 years, and realistically i can't ever see us getting married!
we behave the same as a married couple... we have a mortgage, a pet dog, 4 kids between us.
i wasn't bothered about getting married to begin with and she was really into the idea, now i'd rather get married and she's not bothered. I can go on not being married though, i'm not gunna cry about it.
my lady was in a relationship for 12 years not being in love with her partner before she eventually gave him the hoof...
women do seem to have more power than we want to admit in a relationship.
my lady is my best friend too... that kinda helps.