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Thanks for everyone's input. Most of it has been valuable, in that I have a mix of different perspectives on what appears to be a fairly common, but of course a serious issue as well. I need to spend a few days internalizing and analyzing more deeply. I will probably create a list of things I feel can improve the situation and "build steam for a future" as someone put it. I will sit down and have an adult discussion about them, but after the holidays, and see where we land. One thing that is a lot more clear now is that it would be really unfair to make any sort of decisions with myself before I can come to the table with her and absorb her perspectives.
Really appreciated some of the advice in this thread. It was very helpful to hear nuggets from other people's divergent experiences. Thanks, again.