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    in 13 years and you arent married and no kids.. she isnt pulling her weight, goes out on her own and uses your time to get drunk and really isnt with you..

    it is time to move on.. i was married 10 years and lived was together with my ex wife for a total of 14 years..

    a lot of what you mentioned i lived thru.. and all the negatives otu weighed the positives..

    its been 4+ years since we broke up and divorced, but there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of her. she was my bestest friend..

    the feeling you have as you posted... i say if you do move on.. do it now!!

    you are not married.. have no children.. and she sounds like she loves you but doesnt care much for you or your feelings.. she uses you as a crutch to be her stepping stool and still does as she pleases..

    it sounds like hell!! or really what my marriage was just before we separated..

    i wish you the best of luck.. but there is 1 answer.. break it off.

    i wish i wasnt saying that to you.. but i doubt most people here giving you answers have been thru that long of a relationship..

    maybe 10 of us.. and everyone else is just feeding into your negatives.. they may say what i am.. but they really dont know what you may be losing..

    today i am happy-ish.. but i am much better off than drowning in a negative lifestyle that only fed to its entropy..

    good luck.. it will be hard times.. but if you continue it might just be worse.. and all the things you mentioned that you believe isnt happening.. just might happen.. and you really dont want to be part of that..

    also i recommend you talk it out with her over us.. however as you said she isnt making any change to help your relationship.. what i hear is she is using your time for her sake and not giving you anything out of it..

    move on.. find yourself and others..

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    • Back on the kronk then epill...Horp
    • kronk?e-pill
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    • no way.. have no need for it.e-pill
    • Ha, fair do's... to be honest I was making fun of your crazy spellings, but now when I read back I see you didn't...Horp
    • ... make any crazy spellings, so I must have skim read and mis-read. As you were!Horp
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