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    "The cheating thing I am positive on. I definitely respect that there are plenty of women out there who flip their tune, but my gal is not that type. She is dignified enough to break it off before something like that happens."

    This means you don't see as a woman but another guy with great ass and set of breasts.

    Man and woman are really, really different. we interact with the world, perceive it and with similar facts jump to totally different perspectives. Accept and embrace the difference.

    You gotta make a mental list of what matters to you.
    cute face - check
    great ass - check
    breasts with nice nipples - check
    those are the obvious ones but then deep deeper:

    ability to enjoy cooking for her man - nope
    getting mature and giving up drinking - nope

    etc, etc
    After it's a "simple" equation of positives and negatives.

    I'm dating a wonderful smoking woman right now and after 2 years i can attest that feeling change. Sometimes the desire is not there and then you ask yourself what has changed? (then you dig up some old pics and see that nothing physical changed so the transformation had to occur within). Then other qualities kick in (joy of cooking etc from above). If there is nothing to hold on to but the memories of happy past then i say move on.

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    • Have you tried asking her to give up smoking?Horp
    • You could spnsor her, like $10 a day for every day she doesn't smoke.Horp
    • Or nicotine patches maybe. I hear great things about those.Horp
    • Also,Horp
    • You haven't mentioned whether she likes anal, which is pretty rare for you Pr2.Horp
    • But I'm sure she does. What kind of a crazy world would it be if she didn't, huh?Horp
    • But anyway, I digress. Maybe hypnotherapy would work.
      ^ For the smoking I mean.      Horp
    • of course she likes anal, that's besides the questionpr2
    • I think my point, the one I was trying to make, sarcastically, is that its always beside the point but...Horp
    • ... you always fit it in somehow. Sort of like you're compensating for something. Know what I mean?Horp
    • i actually don't.pr2
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