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  • monkeyshine0

    Girl perspective alert. Everyone here is so quick to say move on. 13 years is a long time. Honor your relationship and put in the effort and energy to see if you guys can work through this. It will take both of you and maybe you'll need a mediator (therapy) but at least try. Maybe it's time for you both to move on; this is very common for people who get together in college and then they grow up and realize they've outgrown one another. But you won't know for sure until you try. It sounds like you both are at fault...why don't you have your own friends?? Maybe you're putting too much pressure on your girl by relying on her too much. Go get a life and some friends.

    Fix yourself and try to fix your relationship. If it doesn't work, you'll be that much further ahead when you move on.

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    • thanks for adding thisvaxorcist
    • fuck that, based upon your initial post, GET THE FUCK OUT! "Refuses to work!?" Fuck that noise bro.
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    • and what's with the 'Fix yourself" shit, how the fuck do you know he needs to be fixed? Typical
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    • Yeah, girls are always trying to "fix" people. Fuck that shit.monospaced
    • Have you ever been in a long term relationship, P? Sounds like you could use some fixing.monkeyshine
    • Your assumptions make for crude generalizations. The mother of all fuck-ups.
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    • haha, that's rich coming from you, panacea. You're the king of generalizations.Jaline
    • I personally would leave the relationship, but I think monkeyshine has a good point about thoroughly discussingJaline
    • monkeyshine, what was the longest relationship you have had? im guessing not 13 yearsautoflavour
    • it first, and making an effort. You both have to be in it though. And just as others were picking up on the cluesJaline
    • about her not wanting to work in or out of the house (could be due to school though), monkeyshine picked up on the fact that maybe d needs more of a social life.Jaline
    • fact that maybe d needs more of a social life. But first, massive discussion time.Jaline
    • Jaline, you sound like an 18 year old. Hilarious, this joint. I don't know what fucking board you're reading, I don't generalize
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    • 14 years is my longest relationship. Just sayin it takes two-work on yourself. Why controversial?monkeyshine
    • generalize. I deal in specifics based upon logic and facts, which in this case are his statements, again typical.
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    • Uhmmm, he's mad an effort, it's called 13 years and the party is over, the lust has fizzled, bye bye.
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    • why the anger, panacea? Is everything a fight with you? don't have a coronary, my friend.monkeyshine
    • panacea, you are generalizing. Every other sentence you say is, "all women do this. typical behaviour" instead of lookingJaline
    • at it case by case.Jaline
    • http://static.fjcdn.…autoflavour
    • blah blah blah, bottomline the chick is boring you, get out.
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