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- fyoucher10
Went through the same exact shit with my wife, except we have a family so it's a little different in perspective. But, gaaaaah, nearly identical with the lil' tidbits (we're doing well now tho). Listen, sounds like you need to sit down with her and talk about it. There's probably a good reason that you were together for that long. 13 years is a hell of a lot of time to just throw away. Sounds like it's been deteriorating and no one has said anything and it's just been building up for so long.
Maybe you two are better off separate but maybe there's still something there. Think you both need to sit down and discuss things like grown-ups do. Tell her EXACTLY what you said here. Hell, send her a letter so she can digest it.
If it's been 3 good years and 10 shitty years, that's one thing (yeah, give her the boot). But if it's been 11 good years and the last couple of years seem a bit crappy, you might want to think it over and talk to her about it.