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  • Ianbolton0

    Maybe have a kid, that'll take your mind off the mundane relationship.
    Seriously though, it's hard to understand what you have until it's gone. 13 years is a massive relationship, but by the sounds of things it's not sounding great. Do you love each other? Are you at least friends? Do you think you'd stay in touch if you split up? I can't even imagine being with the same woman for that long. They bore the shit out of me after a year or two!!

    • We are pretty much tight still. We love each other, I just don't think we're as closely aligned any longer.scaredshitless
    • I think in the event of a split, we would still be good friends. We're both adults over here.scaredshitless
    • I think that maybe a lot of this is just me also, and who I am.scaredshitless
    • For instance, if we did split, I don't know that I would date for a long long time.scaredshitless
    • I wouldn't know the first thing about dating.scaredshitless
    • "Maybe have a kid"
      yeah and if it still doesn't work out you can sell it.
      moldero

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