Marriage.
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from a lot of noise Pauli created I think he/she has touched a few important topics.
I can't say I disagree with a lot of the things he/she said..
Btw, trying to to sound more sensitive and trying not to make you paranoid but when a woman just doesn't love her partner anymore and you have this awful atmosphere where you fight as you wake up, she is most likely involved with someone else and now the more she sees you, staying home, no prospect in career, she sees you as a baggage in her life, especially since she's now in love or in lust with someone else.
A woman, no matter how suffocating her relationship is, will in effect, if she's alone and completely in that relationship, give her 100% to try to make it work. When they don't and it feels they just hate you, it's most likely not repairable and she's seeing or looking for someone else.
The fact that you are so young doesn't help. Your natural desires to bang other people, to experience diversity in love, fun is kicking in.. especially for a woman (considering woman young as her is eager to still have a career to have fun, to have someone she will follow). This is not weird btw, it's just that you made a huge mistake having kids so young.
This is why you don't have kids when you are in your 20s. You live your life when you are in your 20s and even 30s. You married when you've had your fun, you have achieved what you wanted in life and now it's time to take your boyfriend/girlfriend relationship to another level and are ready to fully sacrifice your life for kids. Because that's what marriage really is. A union of 2 people who sacrifice pretty much everything to see their offspring grow and prosper, selfishly.
Unfortunately for you Joe and I"m really sympathetic with your situation is that you can't save this one.. You can either cut it off and make yourself happy, try to give your kids everything, get a job, see other people.. it might actually be, in fact, as many have suggested, the best thing that happened to you.