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    ^ I'll agree with this. The only way you can tell if it was proper love is after the dust has settled with time. Time is the only thing that provides clarity.

    I'll be honest, with my break-up, a BIG part of the pain was ego. And I spent half of last year chasing after she'd moved on with someone else.

    I haven't spoken to her at all in six months, but her birthday is coming up in a week, and I will send her an email wishing her happy birthday. Why? Cos I actually do love her and I want to wish her well, but it took me this long to finally, really come to terms with that after telling my ego to get bent.

    The point is, only time will tell you if your feelings are lying to you or not.

    • And I say i agree because, unfortauntely, I see a lot of my own former relationship in this.Continuity
    • yeah, trying to get people back that you never THOUGHT you were that into in the first place... funnny that.Khurram
    • I can't excuse myself, I just have to accept the realities.Continuity
    • feelings are NEVER real. They are always arbitrary, momentary, and fleeting. Make peace with that.Khurram
    • I think the hard part was that we truly cared about each other, and that's what really mattersvitamins

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