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- Khurram0
hehe, i remember one time i was seeing this girl and she was OBSESSED with me.
Within weeks she was inundating me with calls. I left for holiday and i returned with 20 voicemails.
I got to the point i stopped answering ehr calls - but strung her along anyway.
I "cheated" on her and attempted to cheat on her relentlessly - or as best the level of game at the time allowed me to. There were at least 3 other girls i shagged in that 9 month period, and way more i pursued.
Then at some point she went totally off me. I went fucking NUTS.
I became an incessant little boy on ADD - started reminding her of certain times where i HAD been "loving". "remember what i did for your birthday???" etc...
And then she'd be into me again, and i'd go back to being "aloof". And then when i got "aloof" i discover her sending naked pictures of herself to other guys.
What can i say in that situation? Can you blame her??
However obvious it is to me how damaged and broken our relationship was - how it was all fucking games from the beginning - the pain to your ego is REAL. And you feel it DEEPLY.
But you know vitamins, you never wanted anything long term with her. It's just the feeling of having a person into you that you miss. This chick could be any chick.
And i'm not comparing my situation to yours, but your emotions LIE. They make you see things for SHORT TERM gratification, simple as.