when to step in?

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  • KublaKhan0

    bxcar, i undertstand your point. as i do most of you.

    the fine line is when friendship turns into scouting. i don't want this person to feel like i am just getting into their business.

    but it is evident that they are on something. this person makes good money on a good job and is ALWAYS broke. you may say thats no big deal, but when the person has absoutely nothing...and i mean NOTHING to show for his lifestyle, you start realizing that there is something else going on.

    plus this person randomly mentions that someone else they know has a drug problem, but i feel like what this person is doing is building the story of themselves on someone elses life....makes sense? kinda throwing it off on the other person and giving reasons/excuses and such.

    in any event, i think i will confront them sometime soon. just as a friend that is concerned. if i wasn't their friend i wouldn't feel the necessity to step in. but...

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