what should men not do?
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Effeminately over-analyse ever aspect of their life and adjust it to be in accordance with any theme or scheme that they've read about in a magazine, or sat around in a group discussing whilst drinking wine and gossiping. This is what girls do. They're good at it, and their brains are designed to do it. They have a greater social sense than we do, and have more and closer friends, with whom they discuss a greater range of personal issues than we do.
If you behave like this as a man, you are not 'getting in touch with your feminine side', you are becoming feminized, there is a subtle and important difference. Being 'in touch with your feminine side' for a guy means listening to what women have to say, so that you can understand them, and hopefully use that knowledge so that you can do things for them in a way that they will understand better your expressions of love for them. You do not need to become feminized to do this, and despite the fact that you may gain close female companionship by behaving like this, ultimately you will be thwarting your own personal growth and chances of happiness, either singly, or with a female partner.
This is utterly reversed or irrelevant for gay men, but I don't for a minute think that is what the question is about.
Straight men should relate to other men in a manly way, as to engender trust and bonding, and similarly toward women.- Are you related to christianism, in any way or form?ftravieso
- We should get together and talk about this a bit more. I'll bring the wine. We can start a new clique!!Horp
- "am I related to christianism in any way"...... oh dear sir. Please filter some of the religion threads...lolmikotondria3