Breakups

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  • toochie0

    Woah, I am in a similar situation. 8 years, not married, no kids. I am moving out this weekend.
    It’s due to his substance abuse.

    We made an offer on a house, and that night he didn’t come home (Which happens once in a while, I’m used to it). I was afraid that I made a huge mistake.

    Then, 6 weeks ago there was a particular incident that scared the hell out of me. This is when I decided to move out.
    He’s been sober ever since. This was all I’ve wanted for years...now that it’s here I feel relived, exhausted and angry.
    I told him I needed time to clear my head, re-evaluate and let go of my anger.

    After all that, I still feel guilty b/c he really wants to work it out. Ugh, what a saga!

    • Sorry about your situation... good luck with everything.NotByHand
    • OMG toochie, that sounds like a horrendous situation :(sputnik2

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