let's vent
let's vent
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I've just gone through a break up after living together. It's fucking terrible, but now we are toying with getting back together. I tell if it's fear or love that's bringing us back together.
- I'm so anxious all the time, thinking she'll just make out with someone else, as she has before.. I'm going mad.brains
- also, it's "I CAN'T Tell"brains
- Been there... good luck with everything, brah...NotByHand
- i'm sorry to hear that. i hope it gets better for you.iamlo
- I don't know. I am sort of interested in someone else, but can't let her go because I still feel like there is a future there.brains
- Nothing is clear anymore. When she goes out, (like tonight) I'll sit at home worrying all night long.brains
- That I'll have to take the crushing blow of her telling me she kissed someone else, or that she met someone (again)brains
- ahh...you could do better.iamlo
- is she really worth the paranoia and the constant worrying?emukid
- exactly. no one deserves that.iamlo
- i've had my fair share. and no one is worth that much trouble. except for jnr madison of course.emukid
- That's what I'm not sure of. I'm not completely innocent in the whole thing either, she's been in the same place as me.brains
- Sounds like the two of you really need to sit down and talk about whether there's a future together for you guys or not. Otherwise this constant misery will eat you up.NotByHand
- this will be the third time we try it, and the only way is if we go through relationship counselling because we've definitely both done some terrible things along the way.brains
- both done some terrible things along the way.brains
- Otherwise this constant misery will eat you up.NotByHand
- Every time we do that talk, we both agree that we can't imagine being with anyone else.brains
- yeah, i'd say a good heart to heart is needed. sometimes you have to decide if you're not detrimental to each other after all.iamlo
- So we'll most likely seek counselling, because yeah, neither of us want this to happen again.brains
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iamlo - then propose to her tonight. wearing your favorite darth vader mask.emukid
- well ok, i've been in your situation before. and still am - even if you love them sometimes they don't help you at all, they just bring you down.iamlo
- Although a good portion of me thinks staying together is such a fool's romantic idea, and that starting anew with someone else would be better.brains
- they just bring you down. gotta admit it.iamlo
- else would be better.brains
- Yeah, maybe so. If that's where you are.. what are YOU doing?brains
- we need a separate thread just for YOUR venting.iamlo
- me? i'm waiting to see what happens.iamlo
- True enough, it's nice and peaceful in the notes at least.brains
- not so much cheating as just..going nowhere.iamlo
- It's difficult to wait. I hate the waiting period. It definitely ended poorly last time.brains
- There was no real "cheating" with us, we both did it while we were "apart". Not easy though, because it takes a long time to feel like you are really "apart" from someone.brains
- feel as if you are truly "apart" from someone.brains
- i guess you just gotta see what happens. or let go and start somethign new and exciting.iamlo
- Talk about it, and make a decision soon. It's not worth going back and forth all the time.Jaline
- Good luck.Jaline