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  • pang0

    I would second that; long distance r'ships do not work. If they do, it's a only for a short period until the strain gets too much and then some kind of action is required.

    R'ships are also based on compromise - can she study med. anywhere else? Locally/overseas?

    And although you guys have feelings involved with this decision, lets get realistic... you guys have been dating for 1.5yr only which is relatively short, she is quite young also and has those student years to go through yet.

    I would have to say to say the NYC option looks more promising - carear, contacts, social scene, mixed cultural scene, etc... or am I being too heartless and too biased?! :-S the poor girl !

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