Major advice needed.

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  • jfletcher0

    I think this is a good plan:
    OKOK this is the plan

    You: go back to UK, your wife go to Indiana
    You: find a job in UK or try to while your wife moves back home
    You: get a job invite wife

    Cons: this may take a while.

    My wife and I lived in separete countries when we were first married for a year. Yeah, it sucked, but it had to happen. We could do it again if we had to (right now she might prefer it as we're having a fight). It won't be easy being apart from your wife, but you have to think the best thing to get you back on your feet, and often times, it's not the easiest.

    My main advice is don't have a kid right now (unless you already have one), that will make everything worse for the time being.

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