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- kona0
I lost 3 of my four grandparents in less than a year not too long ago, I know how you feel. Its horrible. You dont have enough time to get over the loss of one then another one passes. There is no rhyme or reason, you didn't do anything wrong in a past life, you're not being punished, and even though you dont believe in him its not Gods fault. When my grandmother passed it was sudden, and it was hard to take in because I didn't get a chance to say goodbye, and I feel sorry that happened to your 58 yr old brother in law. But you have time with your uncle. You have the rare opportunity to focus on the present, be with him, support him and cherish every moment up until his last. Use that time to focus on the good, dont dwell on the anger, the hate and the bad of "why me, why us" its a waste dude. Keep your chin up and be strong friend