Girlfriend advise
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"Have a woman for everyday of the week." -My Dad
In some ways my pops is right. Had he been entirely correct, I would have more money.
But ya so what, this conversation is about why he's RIGHT.
Men, you should date as many women as possible as often as possible. Forget waiting for the "one", ya you know that unreal manifisation of a female you have raised on a pedastal in your mind. I used to believe in the perfect person, a "soulmate", not so much now. Now I realize that you have to be totally insane to think you can't be perfectly happy with more than one person on this world of 7 BILLION.
I digress.
Why Eric, should I be a player? A player? No not a player. Player's are those disrepectful types with low self-esteem looking to women to make them feel good about themselves. They are not gentlemen, they are trash. More than likely they drive a hoopty and wear fake ice. I'm not hating, I will congratulate one. Its not their ideals they have wrong, its their morals and execution of the game that ruins it for the rest of us.
You my friend, on the other hand are James fucking Bond, mothafuck'n James Dean bitch. You don't chase women, women chase you. You my friend, are a "serial dater."
Ok Eric, so then why should I be a Serial Dater? Because you have balls man! So use em'. You're an animal in the wild, go hunt. You like women don't you? Do you really need a reason? What are you afraid of? Quit ask'n me stupid fucking questions.
Moving on...if you wanna know why, here it is. If you ever plan on getting married, which most of you will including myself. You better damn make sure you do an excellent job of choosing someone that you can spend the rest of your life with. Or at least until half of you get divorced. She should be everything you love! But how do you know what you love about a women if you haven't seen all the characteristics a woman is capable of possesing?
This is why you Serial Date.
Every woman you date might not have every manurism you find just absolutely adorable, but hey she might have one. And so as you date these women, keep track of what you like (use the back of your blackbook.) The woman you end up with in the long-term, will have everything on that last page.
Unless you're in a relationship, its OK to date multiple people. Even if you're just dating someone, its OK to date OTHER people AT THE SAME TIME. Ladies, you might not like it but YOU can do this too! I actually recommend it. This way 1)You have a backup if the person you're dating now ends up sucking (not literally.) 2)You have something to do every weekend. 3)It's just plain fun.
***Tip: It's easier to date if you have a job and car. So get one, of each.
How many people do I recommend you date at the same time? As much as you can handle. Make sure you keep a calendar with notes of their number, interests, what you have in common And for Christ's Sake remember their names. I don't recommend calling a chick "Tuesday." It's not polite.
And remember, you're the fuck'n catch! Until she proves herself to YOU, you have no reason to be inclined to be monogomous. Now I do believe once you're in a relationship, that its. This game ends, another one begins. And even still, never give up your balls.
BUT if nothing above pertains to you because you're a WUSS and would rather sit at home pick'n your nose eat'n ramen play'n Dungeons and Dragons, have no fear.
All you gotta do is use the three C's....