question for dads
question for dads
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- k0na_an0k0
I can't say from personal experience, but I can tell you from what I've seen this is normal. It's a huge life changing moment. Finances are but a small part of it. You're thinking OMG am I going to raise this kid right or is he/she going to be a dumbass? What school are we going to send them to? Shit... is this stroller safe... it doesn't look safe. College?!? OMG COLLEGE!
It's a lot to take in all at once but just understand you've got YEARS for it all to fall into place.
I've got two nephews who are 19 and 18 months old and both Dads I could see felt the same way, but now that it's over they're both like... shit, that was easier than I though.
The first month-two months will be tuff though from what they tell me.