Divorce just got ugly
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- steven_segal0
go get some hookers man. like they say, "at least hookers are honest about their prices", *ahem* or so I've heard.
- eh ?erikjonsson
- ya know, hookers vs committed relationshipssteven_segal
- so, you really go to hookers?akrokdesign
- freitag0
ride shit out.. that's the only way.
i am massively deep shit lately and there's very little in my power to do about it, so same boat.
- squidy0
I know the process and pain you speak of. I too went through divorce last Feb and am still not feeling "normal". Having to leave my house was difficult, but even more difficult was learning how to be alone again.
The best advice I can give is enjoy the new found freedom, and fill your time with creative projects. Also, rebound sessy works wonders ;)
- mg330
- that movie is AWESOME. definite recommendationsteven_segal
- wow that copy on the back is seriously shitty slapped on therefreitag
- another movie is http://www.theartoft… a little cheesy but something to think aboutzaq
- JackRyan0
Take a couple of days and get away by yourself. Don't have any contact with her. Plan all of your next steps out, and then work the plan. It will be hard, but try to either swallow any feelings of love for her, or drink the pain away. But, get out of that situation as quickly as possible. Its like ripping bandages off...the quicker the better.
- and watch Run Ronnie Run during these couple of days, a couple of times.mg33
- capn_ron0
Yeah, i'm riding the rollercoaster right now and i'm on the bottom of the first hil, so it goes up hopefully tomorrow. I hate depression and being sad. Can i skip to 6 months from now please!!!
- capn_ron0
I just kicked her out of the house last night and told her I didn't want to see her until it was over. She went on a "date" and told me. Total crap and made me feel terrible.
- the wheel of spite has begun. Shes looking to be a victim and to hurt you at the same time. Its a double whammy but the truth is something in side of her is terrified and hurt. Dont let that crap get into your soul or youll be no better.Countryman
- akrokdesign0
hey you reached the bottom, it can only go up from here. :-)
- i'm not sure yet, hopefully. i am ready for the uphill.capn_ron
- prophet0NE0
I guess it depends on what you mean by turned sour...
Regardless, you have to simply move forward and stay positive. It sucks I suppose as things aren't going to plan. But sometimes you have to forget it and start fresh. I find things have a way of turning around eventually. And almost always, you're at a point where it seems like there's no way it's going to get better, but it will. Just not the way you expect it to.
- Yeah, it is so fresh, there is no bright future ahead. But i'm changing that asap.capn_ron
- identity0
give her whatever she wants, don't fight, let things happen...
If you can get somewhere before, you can do it again, and the sooner that this venom and negativity is out of your life the happier you will be.Take the path of least resistance - it'll make you feel better in the long-term...
- good words. I guess with the newness of it i need to practice this,capn_ron
- Awesome advice. Sincerely.Lifeinvector
- capn_ron0
I'll tell you one thing, i'm going skating tomorrow and that 6 foot bowl better be ready for the punishment I am going to unleash on it.
I just realized I am listening to depressing music as well, but i don't care. I am depressed and will chipper up when i am F'in ready.
- good plan. take the ipod and slayer's seasons in the abyss too...prophet0NE
- identity0
take a few days off work - go on a cross-state drive - visit a friend - visit family... let people take care of you for a bit...
But take some time to clear your head... Drive 90mph with the windows down...
- prophet0NE0
Could it be worse than Jon & Kate? He's now a douche nozzle, everyone knows it and TLC just fired his ass.
- Mal0
time passes, wounds heal & chicks dig scars
- this should be a tattoo on a lower back...identity
- <3 Mal is awesome.Lifeinvector
- morilla0
Hey man, sorry to hear it took a turn south. I remember when we hung out at the QBN meet up you said that everything was cool and you 2 were on the level with it.
From my experience it really rarely goes without a hitch. If you need to vent or tear the town up give me a ring.
- MondoMorphic0
Do you want to know why divorce is so expensive? Because it's worth it!
Seriously, the divorce is going to suck, but you'll be really happy after, and believe it or not, you two will get over it and be able to be civil towards one another. ;)
- d0mino0
not sure how it all goes so pear shaped, or why its all fucked. but these emotions are awesome. embrace them. it is what being human is all about!