losing it...
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- PonyBoy
I have a feeling i'll be watching the sun come up again...
... not working either -
about 6 hours ago I tried to have a cordial conversation w/my brother about bringing his 'new' boss over to the house and well... fucking her...
... apparently in his 12+ years of working shit jobs he hasn't learned to fucking keep his dick in his pants - and it's cost him JOB AFTER JOB AFTER JOB...
... wouldn't you know it... we get into a massive fight about it - about how his fucking up costs ME money... cuz he'll go 2 months w/a job... and yeah... pay... then bam... 3 months w/half-ass 1/4 payments here and there...
... and I'm fucking tired of it.He's a fucking WHITE 31 YEAR OLD AMERICAN MALE... and he's fucking handsome to boot... gorgeous kid at that... and that's not just brotherly love - we used my brother for a couple of Smith sun glass campaigns that went international... so the kid is HANDSOME.
Yet... after a conversation w/him that turned into a massive eruption and now an all-out broken glass fest (I don't advise walking barefoot in my home)... the kid still seems to think that fucking his BOSS is fine and that this job is going to remain intact and that I have nothing to worry about...
... well... it's my fucking home... I put the money down and pay every last fucking bill in my name... not his chump-ass...
... after that conversation and literal PLEADING to at least not bring that bullshit into our home...
... I come home to HEAR HIM banging the shit out of his 40+ year old boss...
.... I FUCKING LOST MY SHIT AND KICKED HIS DOOR IN!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAH...
... call me an asshole all you want - I challenge you to put up with someone you love that is NOT your responsibility for 5+ years and see if you don't fucking react the same way...
... the stupid twit of girl was all threatening to call 911... I told her to get on it... she'd help me to finally get to sleep for once...
... the trullish cunt packed her shit up and walked out... through the glass I might add...
... I'm literally on the edge of losing what's left of my fucking mind and needed to write or talk about it...
... please unload on me... tell me to get a life and to let my brother / family run mine if you think I'm out of line...
... regardless - I'm going to now get drunk and stoned of my ass and hope I don't cut my feet to shreds.
2:49am wishes...
...sleep well. :)
- Peter0
Now when you say unload on me...
- flashbender0
do you have a sister?
- *sigh... no... just FOUR brothersPonyBoy
- * sighGeorgesII
- oh, that's too bad.flashbender
- Orbit0
Maybe you can fuck her too. That would give you a whole new philosophy on this situation.
- Leigh0
Sounds like your brother needs to get his own place and then he can do what he wants.
Kick him out.
- PonyBoy0
^^I've kicked him out maybe... 5 times in the last 5-6 years... and about 6 days ago I gave him the uber-boot...
... tonight when I reminded him he needs to find a place - he acted in some stupid fucking manner saying "i've been here so many rights and legally I have rights" or some shit like that...
... I attempted to laugh... but it came out as pure evil I think.
I wish my parents had a couple of sacks attached to their nether's and would fucking stand up and help this poor kid out - he's been a wreck since he was 15 and pretty much left to rot...
... I just can't deal with it anymore... I'm literally going to go Cain and Able on this shit if he doesn't man-up and leave as I've asked.
- ok, hit him with an iron bar thenkelpie
- lol@kelpieflashbender
- He has no rights unless you signed a lease, or anything on paper, kick him to he curb.NONEIS
- kelpie0
I'm with Leigh on this one, tough love time - your brother has to learn to take responsibility for his own life and you're not helping by always helping, you know? Kick him the fuck out.
Hope things pick up for you pony, fuck sake you've had it rough lately mate
- GeorgesII0
how about filming him and selling the dvds online,
simple, minimal cost and you'll make a buck really fast,
you can film it with your phone and sell it for a higher price tagging it "amateur honeymoon"
- TheBlueOne0
Before you go on - was this cougar hot or what?
- PonyBoy0
haha... she's gorgeous, tbo...
... but that's besides the point.
this cougar has a 16 yr. old... AND A 22 YEAR OLD...
... what's she doing banging my brother anyway?
- TheBlueOne0
"I come home to HEAR HIM banging the shit out of his 40+ year old boss... I FUCKING LOST MY SHIT AND KICKED HIS DOOR IN!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAH..."
QBN Quote of the motherfucking year right there
- TheBlueOne0
You know he might be losing this job not for banging his boss but rather for having his rabid insane family member crash into said sex session foaming at the mouth going all "AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA! No, you go ahead and call 911 Mrs Cougar! Yeah! Go ahead! Here's your phone you whore! Dial it! DIAL! Then maybe, just maybe, I could get some sleep for once!"
- I'm picturing you as looking like Bruce Campball at that moment. No, don't ruin it for me, let me keep that image for alleternity,TheBlueOne
- I meant Bruce CampbellTheBlueOne
- PonyBoy0
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...
tbo... I <3 you. :)
... so does tommyo - but that has nothing do with this particular thread. ;)
- I always liked the cut of your jib as well. No hugging ok thnx..TheBlueOne
- *hugs anyway ;)PonyBoy
- BusterBoy0
It seems like threats don't work with him. Similar situation happened with my 2 older brothers. They had a massive fallout just after my Mother died about 4 years ago and haven't spoken since. Try your best to resolve it in a positive way - family is forever and a fractured one is really fucked up. I'd give anything to get my brothers talking...
- TheBlueOne0
OK, kidding aside, after the smoke clears sit down and talk to your brother, because it's time for him to wise up and fly right at least until he hits like 45 and has every right to act childish and stupidagains for a few years. At least get him to keep his sexual picadillos off your property
- PonyBoy0
shit, buster... :(
That's precisely why I've hung in there w/my lil bro.... but it's to the point that I can't deal anymore.
He's very much in 'awe' of our older brother (who recently spent 4+ months in jail for his 3rd DUI)... he does nothing but play poker 'professionally' as it were - being sure to live off his girlfriend and persuade her and my mother to pretty much give into whatever dumb shit he prefers to do...
... out of all '5' my 'brothers' (some by marriage)... I'm the only one to even go to college. that's not a huge deal - but as we've all reached our 30's... I'm seeing what a big DEAL it actually is...
... the ignorance / lack of understanding what it takes to even keep your head above water is pretty fucking ridiculous.
My brothers all have the brains of engineers or doctors - I'M THE DUMB ONE... I'M THE FUCKER W/THE LEARNING DISABILITY... not them...
... yet they prefer to scrape off other humans rather than rise up and be FUCKING AWESOME as their brains are built to be...
... it's like a punch in the face everyday they talk 'positively' about the stupid shit their up to that will only cost them / their loved ones / their 'friends' hardship.
Again - I wish my one of our parents would go a fucking set of of SOMETHING that has testosterone in it and fucking unload on these idiots...
... else I'm going to end up w/a dead brother on my hands... literally. Because they all seem to flock to me... to my home... to my place... to my money... to whatever I have...
... and I don't have much more... I'm literally at the end of whatever 'wick' God gave this candle.
- You can't control other people time to cast off and seperate from your family and let the chits fall where they mayTheBlueOne
- it seems like you've taken on the same enabler role as your folksTheBlueOne
- you are precisely right - this is why I always look up to those 'elder' to me. :) (no smartness intended, sir)PonyBoy
- well yea, smart people will take advantage of those who slave away and have a learning disabilityPupsipu
- kezza_20
jealous?
- juhls0
Good luck, Pony. Hang in there.
- alicetheblue0
Your brother is family, but, he is driving you crazy.
I'd kick him out - let him grow up.
Be strong Pony.
- kult0
Besides your brother not being able to hold a job, the only anecdotal evidence of bat-shit insane I see is a maniacal brother crashing down a door to jump in on a grown man having sex in his room.
- raf0
You've just lost your brother a job. And a lay.
You owe him now.