losing it...
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- OSFA0
hmmm, it is a tough situation being that he is your brother and deep down, you will always love him. But it is because you love him that you care and worry about him and his actions. Be strong, and help him find his own place, that will help him grow up and become more responsible. HELP him, don't just kick him out.
Oh, and PLEASE, post pics of his boss...
- TheBlueOne0
Look on the bright side...what is a disastrous trail of wrecked jobs and meaningless sex for your brother is an opportunity at known and quantifiable sources of sloppy seconds for you and your friends.
- lambsy0
pics of this handsome lad and his cougar please
- jimzyk0
you should go shag her now....
see how he likes them apples.
- raf0
You've just lost your brother a job. And a lay.
You owe him now.
- kult0
Besides your brother not being able to hold a job, the only anecdotal evidence of bat-shit insane I see is a maniacal brother crashing down a door to jump in on a grown man having sex in his room.
- alicetheblue0
Your brother is family, but, he is driving you crazy.
I'd kick him out - let him grow up.
Be strong Pony.
- juhls0
Good luck, Pony. Hang in there.
- kezza_20
jealous?
- PonyBoy0
shit, buster... :(
That's precisely why I've hung in there w/my lil bro.... but it's to the point that I can't deal anymore.
He's very much in 'awe' of our older brother (who recently spent 4+ months in jail for his 3rd DUI)... he does nothing but play poker 'professionally' as it were - being sure to live off his girlfriend and persuade her and my mother to pretty much give into whatever dumb shit he prefers to do...
... out of all '5' my 'brothers' (some by marriage)... I'm the only one to even go to college. that's not a huge deal - but as we've all reached our 30's... I'm seeing what a big DEAL it actually is...
... the ignorance / lack of understanding what it takes to even keep your head above water is pretty fucking ridiculous.
My brothers all have the brains of engineers or doctors - I'M THE DUMB ONE... I'M THE FUCKER W/THE LEARNING DISABILITY... not them...
... yet they prefer to scrape off other humans rather than rise up and be FUCKING AWESOME as their brains are built to be...
... it's like a punch in the face everyday they talk 'positively' about the stupid shit their up to that will only cost them / their loved ones / their 'friends' hardship.
Again - I wish my one of our parents would go a fucking set of of SOMETHING that has testosterone in it and fucking unload on these idiots...
... else I'm going to end up w/a dead brother on my hands... literally. Because they all seem to flock to me... to my home... to my place... to my money... to whatever I have...
... and I don't have much more... I'm literally at the end of whatever 'wick' God gave this candle.
- You can't control other people time to cast off and seperate from your family and let the chits fall where they mayTheBlueOne
- it seems like you've taken on the same enabler role as your folksTheBlueOne
- you are precisely right - this is why I always look up to those 'elder' to me. :) (no smartness intended, sir)PonyBoy
- well yea, smart people will take advantage of those who slave away and have a learning disabilityPupsipu
- TheBlueOne0
OK, kidding aside, after the smoke clears sit down and talk to your brother, because it's time for him to wise up and fly right at least until he hits like 45 and has every right to act childish and stupidagains for a few years. At least get him to keep his sexual picadillos off your property
- BusterBoy0
It seems like threats don't work with him. Similar situation happened with my 2 older brothers. They had a massive fallout just after my Mother died about 4 years ago and haven't spoken since. Try your best to resolve it in a positive way - family is forever and a fractured one is really fucked up. I'd give anything to get my brothers talking...
- PonyBoy0
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...
tbo... I <3 you. :)
... so does tommyo - but that has nothing do with this particular thread. ;)
- I always liked the cut of your jib as well. No hugging ok thnx..TheBlueOne
- *hugs anyway ;)PonyBoy
- TheBlueOne0
You know he might be losing this job not for banging his boss but rather for having his rabid insane family member crash into said sex session foaming at the mouth going all "AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA! No, you go ahead and call 911 Mrs Cougar! Yeah! Go ahead! Here's your phone you whore! Dial it! DIAL! Then maybe, just maybe, I could get some sleep for once!"
- I'm picturing you as looking like Bruce Campball at that moment. No, don't ruin it for me, let me keep that image for alleternity,TheBlueOne
- I meant Bruce CampbellTheBlueOne
- TheBlueOne0
"I come home to HEAR HIM banging the shit out of his 40+ year old boss... I FUCKING LOST MY SHIT AND KICKED HIS DOOR IN!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAH..."
QBN Quote of the motherfucking year right there
- PonyBoy0
haha... she's gorgeous, tbo...
... but that's besides the point.
this cougar has a 16 yr. old... AND A 22 YEAR OLD...
... what's she doing banging my brother anyway?
- TheBlueOne0
Before you go on - was this cougar hot or what?
- GeorgesII0
how about filming him and selling the dvds online,
simple, minimal cost and you'll make a buck really fast,
you can film it with your phone and sell it for a higher price tagging it "amateur honeymoon"
- kelpie0
I'm with Leigh on this one, tough love time - your brother has to learn to take responsibility for his own life and you're not helping by always helping, you know? Kick him the fuck out.
Hope things pick up for you pony, fuck sake you've had it rough lately mate
- PonyBoy0
^^I've kicked him out maybe... 5 times in the last 5-6 years... and about 6 days ago I gave him the uber-boot...
... tonight when I reminded him he needs to find a place - he acted in some stupid fucking manner saying "i've been here so many rights and legally I have rights" or some shit like that...
... I attempted to laugh... but it came out as pure evil I think.
I wish my parents had a couple of sacks attached to their nether's and would fucking stand up and help this poor kid out - he's been a wreck since he was 15 and pretty much left to rot...
... I just can't deal with it anymore... I'm literally going to go Cain and Able on this shit if he doesn't man-up and leave as I've asked.
- ok, hit him with an iron bar thenkelpie
- lol@kelpieflashbender
- He has no rights unless you signed a lease, or anything on paper, kick him to he curb.NONEIS