i need advice from lifeinbinary
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- grafholic
i'm confused because there's this chic who is talking shit behind my back. yet she still sends me email and stuff.
normally, i wouldn't care and if i run into her, i'd just tell her how much of a bitch she is.
but, we have mutual friends (who told me about her talking shit) and if i do so, they're gonna get in trouble.
ok, so i could just act cool in front of her, then my birthday's coming up and she will definitely learn that she's not invited, then my friends are still gonna get in trouble.
so i'm wondering:
should i just act myself
or
be nice to my friends and act like i'm not pissed at her (and invite her to my birthday??)
- mogwai0
are you in high school?
- tkmeister0
you don't wanna hear my advice?
- grafholic0
yes i am.
or i wish i was.
i wish i didn't have this kind of fucking drama at all, except she's a major drama queen and so are my friends.
i asked my friends what they'd think about my confronting her and they didn't wish it at al.
- _salisae_0
perhaps it is a miscommunication
i would ask whichever friend to let you speak calmly to her about the situation and try to clear it up
signed,
lifeinbinary
- grafholic0
tk - yes.
- grafholic0
i love salisae :)
i don't know.
a good part of me just don't give shit about her.the complication is my friends asked me to not put them in trouble.
- nLHb0
dont invite her. you don't need that drama in your life, that drama is reserved for 15 year olds. you are strong woman! do what you feel in your heart!
- grafholic0
leah - thanks :)
- tomkat0
ask kona - he will tell u to bang her, and maybe you should just do that.
- _salisae_0
awww :)
the party may be a perfect venue to straighten things out
ask your friends if they would do this for you ... to keep the peace. as a birthday present.
most importantly, be sincere with this 'shit talker' .. tell her what you heard hurt you and that you thought you two were friends.
- todelete__20
do you know what a stink palm is?
i find this method works on a lot of things.
- grafholic0
HAHAHAHAHA
but i can never bang her.
- grafholic0
k0na,
please describe this stink palm.
- nick0
graf, i'll straighten her out, give me her digits.
- tkmeister0
i think you need to bitch slap her. that'll be hot. can i watch it when you do that?!
- grafholic0
nick,
are you gonna bang her for me?
- grafholic0
tk - no i don't bitch slap but i bitch-punch.
i love it when you guys make me laugh at my issues.
i feel better already.
- lifeinbinary0
there'll always be people who are going to bitch behind your back no matter what. most people dont like confrontations so they resort to letting it out by bitching about things/people to others. however, you need to rise above all the shit and not let it bother you.
if she talks shit about you, let her. you don't have to confront her or anything remotely close to that. rejoice in the fact that you have friends who know that the shit-talker is upto no good (and wrong about you).
no matter how much you try to avoid drama it'll find creative ways to follow you. the only solution is to not acknowledge the it. without attention the drama will die alone in the corner.
- lifeinbinary0
p.s. sorry for the serious reply. i couldn't think of a joke. i am working on it, trust me.
- nick0
if she's hot i'll bang her, if not i'll shake the bitch straight