Dilemma
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I just recently started dating this girl. We have been on several dates now and she has been to my apartment several times. From what I can tell she really enjoys what we have together. The other day we were rolling around in bed, kissing, heavy touching and whatever. We have done this a couple of times and it never led to anything, which I didn’t have a problem with because I respect her and wouldn’t do anything stupid. Well, as we were rolling around the other day, it was getting kind of heavy and I start getting the feeling she wants more, if you know what mean. I go to unbutton her pants and she stops me, she tells me that she’s a virgin. Right a way, I stopped with everything and I found a new level appreciation for her.
Now, this catches me out of nowhere, I mean this girl is beautiful, smart and just turned 21. I find myself asking, what is this girl doing with me? In this day in age, how can someone like this even exist? So, what I am supposed to do? I have been in various types of relationships and never encountered someone as special as this.
Maybe I should talk to her on what her intensions are and see what she plans to do with this whole virginity thing. At the same time, I feel as if I don’t want to do be the one.
I use to think of a girl that would be ideal for me several months ago, now its like the ideal person is now in my life and I don’t know what to do.
I enjoy spending time with her and getting closer to her, but is this something I should continue pursuing?
What would Jesus do?
- brooke0
Get her drunk & rape her. Get it over with.
Haha, just joking. Who better to answer your dilemma than moi? She sounds perfect for you & I think you should just keep doing what you're doing. Chances are, she's waiting for marriage. I know you are the kind of guy to respect her & wait. You're a great guy, C_roc, and you are definately special enough to someday deflower her. Don't be intimidated by it. Appreciate that you have that honor.
- kodap0
send this story to a magazine, maybe they can pay you a reasonable amount for it. then you can get her drunk with the money you earned.
- tomkat0
man, you sound like you really respect what she wants .. if you can give her that feeling, too .. everything will be fine.
yes.
- geeque0
check for a bulge down "her" pants first.
- jevad0
awesome - wish there were more people like you in the world dude - mad respect.
- unknown0
No, there is no bulge and no, the rape thing is out of the question. Besides, she doesn’t drink, smoke or do drugs. If she weren’t so good looking, I’d say she was my female clone.
I only weapon I have going for myself, is my charm and smarts.
- ChumleyUK0
Make sure you love her... Cos she will remember you for the rest of her life if she gives it to you, so you (should) want to be remembered favorably.
Alternatively...
You could knock her out, put her in formaldehyde and sell her to the Natural History Museum in London.
The last human virgin... They collect extinct species... You'll get at least a million for her :) Or treate her right and you could sell yourself to them... The last considerate gentleman... I can see the queues going round the block...
- unknown0
Continuing the topic of understanding and appreciating. Not so long ago, I use have this idea that in order to be happy, I needed to find an equal. Someone that shared similar interest or was in the career field I am in. But mainly, share my intense love affair with the art. I believed in this entirely and didn’t want to see other wise. On top of that I also use to think, that if needed I could some how influence someone to be this ideal individual.
I was wrong in all aspects. Not only, did I not need someone as myself, but you can’t make someone into who they’re not.
Happiness comes in the ability to take things for what they are. Being able to have a fond appreciation for someone being himself or herself and not being who you want them to be. That was the hardest thing for me to understand.
Life has a funny way of bringing people back on track, especially those people who try to only do the right things.
As far as love, I am not jumping the gun and telling her I love her, just yet. Even if would increase my chances of being her first.
I just don't say that word for the sake of saying it, the idea of love means to much for me and I've only said it when I've truly meant it without any second thoughts.
- mastadon0
well said.
- brooke0
Beautifully put.
- joyride0
you could put it in her butt... then everyone is still happy.
haha just kidding. Glad to hear there are some real men out there still. Respect her and yourself and you can't go wrong. Good luck.
- mrdobolina0
stick with this one, homeboy.
- skeptical0
write a letter to oprah
(if you are american)
- paulrand0
maybe it was meant to be