Turns out I'm dating a Pro...
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I think utopian is right. She's gonna run a sick burn on you.
Sure there are 20 something girls you meet at a bar, and they seem to be all the right things, and some don't even mind your age too much, at least not at the moment... and they seem to be living a wild, carefree life not unlike juliette lewis's character in natural born killers. Their impulsive careless nature seems to be fueled by a desire for nonstop sex, and when we see them behave this way, we stop thinking with the big head. We like to live vicariously through them. We can't say no to this type, maybe the greeks called them sirens.
There is a certain other type of twenty something girl you meet at a bar, that only pretends to be the type above. She's actually quite mixed up inside, and uses wild sex as a drug to escape her problems, probably along with real drugs too. She's holding on to you for stability, while she takes both of you on a ride. The problem is she's so mixed up she can't actually see where either of you are going, she's just thriving on raw sensory stuff... what feels good at this moment in time? snort some coke? he fuck me? I find another, where's my purse... damn, I'm out of smokes again.
The first type, I was lucky enough to meet ONE like that, I actually picked her up off the side of the road(really), she turned out to be a wild sex loving alcoholic with a killer set of tits who let me fuck her in a public pool in the middle of an apartment courtyard at 2am. No regrets. Wild and horny. A dream come true. She literally would not put clothes on.
The 2nd type has burned me a few times and I've learned to steer clear. You should too. If they have an opportunity to get out of a shitty situation by fucking you over, they won't hesitate to do it. In their fucked up mind state you never know what they'll do, and if they figure out you love them they'll roll you.
Don't think it hasn't occurred to me you might be the kind of handsome, charming gent that can attract the 1st type. It does happen. But I hope for your sake it's not the 2nd type. Not trying to kill your fun or be overly negative.