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Would you continue to date someone who let you know they'd be away for 8mos out of the year (for work projects)? And this could go on for years. ...When you're looking to really date, >settle down future types stuff and not "date around"?
Really not interested in long distance relationships.
- How far is away?i_monk
- nonononononononononolucas_logan
- Over seas - 6+ hours flights :/
Am I selfish for this?notype - i think you would be stupid to go through with it but maybe you are a masochistlucas_logan
- not at all. I was in a LDR before and even with loyalty and with best intentions it is nearly impossible. Personally i will never do it again.Boz
- Friends are telling me to be open. I know this may open me up to a world of pain I’m too old for. Booked a fun restaurant in the city to eat at...notype
- Rather spend valuable time n’ bread with someone who will stick around town for a little bit. Real bummed.notype
- Sometimes, your friends are not the best to bring opinions when talking about a relationship...OBBTKN
- For me, this is a nono, but ask yourselfOBBTKN
- Anyway, what do I know about that? I have had a relationship of 26 years with my wife (a bit less married) ;)OBBTKN
- What if you moved too?i_monk
- A couple I know, together for less than a year, recently moved here from Australia to stay together.i_monk
- Have fun. dont commit.
Till you come across someone who can commit.pango - Do you like this person? Only have a long term/ settle down relationship with someone you love. If you date her/him and love that person you will make it work.mugwart
- it could work amazing - if you have projects/goals you want to focus on, having long distance could save your relationship.mugwart
- booking very romantic holidays, great strides in communications and even sex toys, you both could do it. Just requires Will.mugwart
- Nocannonball1978
- Thanks guys.notype