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    Fuck say, start to heal from the burn out and starting to get out of serious depression and my ex wife kicks off again, threatening me with Police action.

    Fuck you narcissist, shit staining this incredible fucking world.

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    • What did you do to deserve police action?M01XXX
    • Sucks to hear.docpoz
    • She was a violent abusing drunk. In the mornings it was always me that did the violence. I'm trying to sort my finance out and realised I was over paying £120mugwart
    • a month for like 3 years. I said I couldn't pay it and I wanted my stuff back. And thus the police action.mugwart
    • You were over-paying that each month, or she was paying? She can't pay you back, so flipped?detritus
    • I was overpaying her. I'm not asking to be paid back. Just want to get my stuff back. Originally I told her to keep it but she didnt honour her agreement so Imugwart
    • need to sell some stuff to recover some money from her. Plus a whole host of other stuff.mugwart
    • no i think he has been paying £120 / month too much and would like that overpayment back, as a result she'd gone ballistic.hans_glib
    • personally i'd write it off, pay the correct amount from now on and leave the psycho hosebeast well alone.hans_glib
    • *say = sake!mugwart
    • Narcs are loco when it comes to other people's shite... Be careful engaging her, make sure you have someone around to keep her in checkrobotron3k
    • trying to hans but she wont let me go. Men only exist to pay for her life it seems.mugwart
    • I know the type.docpoz
    • Yeah your right @robo. I refuse to be alone with her. Fucking terrifying mind set.mugwart
    • ffs, well at least your finances wll be £120 better off each month from now on. Good luck with whatever happens, mugwart - shit's above my pay-grade xdetritus
    • Whats stopping you from completely cut her off?pango
    • Keep the evidence of you over paying her for 36 months. It will come in handy.
      Reasoning or debating with her will go no where.      pango
    • I have a kid.So this is through child benefits. So I cant cut her off, she's going to japan soon. I want to make sure she comes back with my kid ...mugwart
    • Thanks for the advice thoughmugwart
    • She's taking the kids to Japan?!?
      I assume you don't have full custody yet :/      pango
    • Cluster B personality types means adopting a no contact rule. Forget the lost money/possessions. Tell the kids you’ll see them when they leave home.spunji
    • Get yourself a good psychologist. She can’t take the kids out of the country without your written consent.spunji
    • She's taking him on holiday to see his grand parents. Shes a bitch but I think the experience of a month plus in rural Japan for an 8 year old incredible.mugwart
    • thanks spunji - I know about the written contact. That alone is a fight I've been having for over a month. She's not taking him without itmugwart
    • I wish you the best mug. Try focusing in yourself. Any small step is important to rebuild confidence and focus. Sometimes we neglect ourselves.Salarrue
    • ^ thank youmugwart
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