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  • ApeRobot1

    How do you tell a 3/half years old that mom and dad are gonna separate?
    This is stressing me out.

    • been there its tough. Be honest and supportive.mugwart
    • my experience its not the telling but the conditions. Your going to get it rough, but find a solid place to live and grow.mugwart
    • due to finance and london prices I had to room hope and that was the worst thing.mugwart
    • but be loving and supportive and try and give them a childhood (toys, safety, warmth) and use QBN to stress out.mugwart
    • also it gets very raw after you leave. Make a plan now of places to take your kid and schedules etc before hand so if you do crash you can go into auto pilotmugwart
    • Thanks mugwart, it's really tough because i don't have any real family support. I'm gonna have to start from scratch and carry the whole thing on my shoulders.ApeRobot
    • Not seeing my kid on a daily basis anymore is fucking me up. I got to deal with me losing my wife after 18 years, and being separated from my son....ApeRobot
    • Same but I was 10 not 18. Fucking sucks man. Not going to lie to you. My advice, write a list of all improvments you want to do on yourself (diet, health, art,mugwart
    • etc). The days away from your kid focus on those. Improve your life at your worst.
      Been there so chime in if you need to. I can give my email if you need.
      mugwart
    • thanks mugwart.ApeRobot

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