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  • oey0

    talking with my friend again :/
    she's telling she's living a battle she doesn't know she can escape from...

    what the fuck do I do?!

    she posted joy division's "she lost control" today in her facebook page and I was like let me talk with you...

    every word i write is important...
    yesterday we ended talking about relationships.

    but i can't do this everyday, specially with the distance...
    i mean this not because of me but of her.

    :/

    • Call her closest family member and tell them asap. If you think she's serious and you can, go there now. Call a suicide hotline for more guidancemonospaced
    • hey mono thanks. i would if i could but i live in germany and she's in portugal. and i don't have any family contact. she's at her mother'soey
    • i don't think she's gonna do it but she's in this spiral of thoughts taking anti-depressives and telling me maybe it's time to quit this battle...oey
    • can you poach her family on FB since she is posting on there? someone who does know her family?capn_ron
    • i think she's in the process of measuring the hypothesis. don't know.oey
    • she's very disappointed with life but she's a fucking fighter she's gone through a lot.oey
    • She can't lay it only on you. Talk to her and straight up ask if she has family around and maybe even say you're concerned. It's not easy.monospaced
    • I've had to make calls before with people I love on the edge. I hope you can get her to the people she needs, even if it's professionals.monospaced
    • thanks mono. had a good talk today. i'll call her tomorrow. she thanked me for listening. reading actually.oey

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