Getting older and working in design
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I'm posting under a second profile - 50% embarrassment and 50% because some of you know me outside of qbn and I want to be honest.
I'm 41 and worked for an entertainment company for well over a decade. First as a graphic designer and web developer and ultimately taking on the role of art director for my department. I lost my job in January '13 when the company decided to outsource my department.
I've been freelancing since then but lately it's slowed down to the point where my wife is basically supporting me. I'm amazed how undervalued our work is. People expect to pay a few hundred bucks for branding work you all know what's involved in creating.
I, in a very Stockholm Syndrome kind of way tried getting another corporate job. I've gone on many interviews where I'm told I'm "overqualified" which is code for "we can get someone fresh out of school for way less." I even went on one interview where they asked me what I would improve on their sites and how, while a woman took notes and they thanked me for coming in. I saw many of my suggestions implemented on their site a month later. The result of all of which has made me feel unbelievably irrelevant.
I got to a pretty bad place and tried ending things last month. "Things" being me.
Yes, I've been getting help. I've always been an artist and creative and I wish I could figure out what my next path should be.
- It's not easy. Thanks for sharing.Ben99
- Damn. I share the same sentiment as benfal. Be well man.mrpt
- It's not easy, but as long as we are alive and healthy, all the rest can go to Hell. We are full of possibilities and we will always find a path.Ben99
- Sorry to hear it CG, glad you're getting help.EightyDeuce
- Damn, sorry to hear things got so bad. Hope outlook is starting to look brighterdee-dubs
- Stockholm Syndrome reference...brillian...utopian
- Thank you. I'm 36 and can see similar challenges coming on the horizon. It's scary. And I'm single with no one to count on...LOKi
- the path of a jedi is rarely even, my friend. stick with it, i'm sure your wife will be grateful you didn't give up :)scarabin
- I wish I had an answer for you, as it pains me to read this. Please let me know if I can help in anyway.Knuckleberry
- Well played on putting it out there.
http://www.gq-magazi…MrBixler - If you figured out what your next path was going to be, what would you know? --heydude420USA
- As cliché as it might sounds, I was in the exact same place as you 3 years ago. and I mean.. exactly the same placeFabricio
- But time does gets things sorted my friend, hang in there. I didnt have a wife 3 years ago (well, im gay.. haha) but things were looking really bad...Fabricio
- Looking back now, my life has changed so much lately, and yes, once in a while I get the desperate of (fuck, where are the jobs coming from! There is no work!)Fabricio
- All I am trying to say is... (in a very inarticulate manner) do not give up, please! Write me an e-mail, and we can chat about this ok?Fabricio
- Thanks for sharing you too Fabricio. I'm sending positive waves to everyone in here.Ben99
- I'd hope to think it's obviously your next step to greatness. The universe wanting you to focus on something. Have you figured that out?CGN
- Allan watts is always a joy to listen too aswell https://www.youtube.…CGN
- good one https://www.youtube.…CGN
- Shit man. sorry to hear you got into that state. Hard for words from strangers to help but please try to stay positive. Millions of people have bad patches.HAYZ1LLLA
- Sorry to hear that man. I know this is all just talk on the internet, and people saying try this, try that doesn't actually do much,ESKEMA
- but that's the only way we can help right now.. Have you tried creating your own product / service? Being less dependent on companies and dealing directly withESKEMA
- customers might be a solution. Or a path to another solution.. I don't know..ESKEMA
- i've gone through similar things. it's not easy but don't ever give up. you never know what and when something might happen. i was really surprised a few times.renderedred
- Fuck... Dude, work is just work, 90% if this is being able to sell yourself! I was a good designer... Not great, but now i pretty much don't even open PS...necromation
- ... as i'm a CD. Sure it gets tough but death!?! Why let them win?!? Learn to play to your strengths and make yourself wanted... the rest is easy.necromation
- you've solved many problems in your career, this is now the one you need to work ontimeless
- teach what you do, mentor students, consult, anything to keep you in the gametimeless
- thought of this during one of my dark times https://www.etsy.com… now it makes us a few thousand a yeartimeless
- I love ESKEMA's idea . . . creating your own product / service? Being less dependent on companies - start your own item / thing : field notes? holy ftimeless
- it's just a blank notebook done well - sorry getting off topic. I know we're all saying things to bring you back up - are you reading these?timeless
- hope they're helping alongside the help you're already getting. hang in there - I know it sounds like a cat postertimeless
- Thank you all so much. I wrote a response on Page 2. Too much to add in one note.CrimsonGhost
- Courageous post CG. Thanks for sharing. I'm hitting 40 too this year.Calderone2000