Women these days.

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  • colin_s0

    monospaced, usually scarabin sounds just fine but i get really annoyed with "hey how should i go about talking to women" sort of things. the predicament outlined in the post is tough, it's a weird spot, but i certainly don't think there's an answer.

    be kind, be respectful, be yourself. like, who the fuck really cares beyond that? be an honorable and good person, don't worry about little nuances like "should i tease or pretend to like them or not like them" or this that and the other thing. it totally detracts from the idea of just being true.

    • i never said be unkind or disrespectful. you're making shit up.scarabin
    • scarabin preaches being true to oneself all the time, and i think that's what he's saying up there too.monospaced
    • not even to put the finger in the ass without asking is disrespect.oey
    • "look good and act like you don't give a fuck" is um... just not advice i'd take is all.colin_s
    • OMG oey, you're making me laugh so hard today. Love it.monospaced
    • "acting like you don't give a fuck" is his way of saying don't try so hard, be yourself.monospaced
    • you have to be strong and look confident even if rejected. that-s called being a man, sometimes.oey
    • exactly, monoscarabin
    • thanks mono!oey

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