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fyi - the anonymity is not because i don't want you guys knowing who i am. it's just in case things get bad and she starts googling around with some of my known usernames to dig up anything should could. although i'm not sure she's that savvy. that's also why I've been a bit hesitant about posting details about what she did.
the main reason i didn't want to divulge more info about what she'd done, or more importantly how I know - is that I got the information in a dishonest (and illegal) way, and I'm not very proud about that. She left herself logged into facebook. Curiousity got the best of me. All it took was one click on the messages icon and that's when my world turned upside down. the message wasn't to him, it was between her and a friend discussing plans for her trip/hotel arrangements for an out of state race - and that her best friend who lives in that state bailed (although I'm guessing she was asked to bail) so she was having him fly up and share the room with her for the weekend.
after looking at phone records for the past 8 months, i realized it was his number that she was calling/texting all the time. and i know the mms messages she sent to him weren't pictures of our kids kids...
- that's harsh, don't let her actions in any way reflect upon your opinion of yourselfali
- yea dude. you did nothing wrong. all those bad feelings only hurt you, it does zero to her. remember that.sofakingbanned