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Went through something simular, feel for you dude. I did decide to confront her, but without any anger. Just put it out in the open. She denied it, but then got pregnant with his kid. He was my best friend of ten years. But another friend gave me some great advice: "When you get hit by a truck, dont open a bank account." Translation: take it slow, and dont rush to make any big decisions right away. When something like this goes down, its like a grenade. Your ears are going to be ringing for a while. I had 10 years in my marriage, it's taken 4 years to get my guts back together and feel healed up. But on the first day it all blew up, I decided I wasn't gonna allow myself to be bitter because I didn't want that to be what my daughter would know me for. Good decision, because it turns out that the best revenge is a life well lived.