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Personally id bring it up. Just to make sure something is not being misinterrupted on your end. Example at work the other day with emotions high, a coworker A thought coworker B completely lied when they opened a file and found they hadnt updated like they said they would. Coworker A already wanted a reason to be pissed at coworker B and tells me about it since its just festering anger. Suggested to be calm and confront. Turns out it was an honest mistake not a lie. Got sidetracked and didnt update it in time. All that festering and the desire to be upset led to more frustration and than judging coworkers B character differently.
If youre pretty positive its not some biased communication error and think it will just open a can of worms which creates more frustration, than keep it to yourself. Do whats best for you. But sometimes its better to just get everything in the open and take the hit than suffering the festering of the emotions overtime.
- or what raf said for legal reasons. divorces with kids can be fucked up********
- or what raf said for legal reasons. divorces with kids can be fucked up