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- mikotondria30
So you've discovered she had an affair and you want to protect your kids from the fall out of her getting angry because you found out ?
Fuck that. She shit the bed, you don't owe her anything. From your kids point of view you'll be the civil one and if she acts all crazy, thats her responsibility. Loving your kids doesnt mean that you have to try to control their mother. Be honest and whole with yourself first and foremost or you won't have the integrity to be a complete parent. You don't have to tell the kids of course not, but you have bring everything to the table or it'll be a rock in your pocket for years and eventually you'll blurt it out. Get it done, now, as cleanly and openly as possible. Or this will fester and kill you. Seriously.- it already is festering. haven't slept in 3 days almost, and lost 6 pounds.fml
- Shit like this gives people cancer, seriously. Get it out in the open, sunlight's the only disinfectant. Just love your kids..mikotondria3
- .. that's what they need, what happens between adults is the adults' business, just be as kind and grown up as you can...mikotondria3
- ...kids'll help you always do that. You're at this point already, it can't get any worse. Be the better person, say it, be brave.mikotondria3
- I need to lose some weight, should my wife have an affair?fooler
- Cmon fooler, have some classHombre_Lobo
- good advice from mikotondria3SunSunSun
- +1 miko.********