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- fml0
Thanks guys.
my problem is we decided not to take things to the next level because of financial reasons with her being a stay at home mom, health insurance, etc. a disruption there would mean kids in daycare (which I don't have anything against, but the kids need their mom or dad as much as possible right now). also - I would end up paying for it in alimony anyway (and probably more).
so she's going to question why all of a sudden i'm changing everything.
We both knew that we were done, with no chance or desire at reconciliation. So she's going to wonder why I have chosen to change that.
- What does it really matter what she thinks anyway or why she suspects.sadpanda