girlfriend not supportive?
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wow columbia is expensive..
for all the reasons stated already.. if you do not or have not made any commitment to live together, or at least even have tried it, then i would say that your answer is that much easier to define. it is your life. i dont know what age you are, but i can say i surely miss being in school, which was in the near 20 year mark.. if i can go back and get my masters i would as i dont fully regret not getting it as i just dont have any time today for that..
moving to nyc, why does it seem to others so crazy?? if its part of your dream for journalism then go for it, not even trying it for the sake of 3 people who are dear to you is a fucking mistake..
i dont care who they are in the world, if they halt your dreams..
you do not even live together.. how do your plans even match? her view is the same as my view or anyone else's.. the only view that matters is your own.
take the chance or live in regrets.. even if you dont get into the program.. come to nyc!!!
living a life of regrets for others is a scary life.. always wondering what could of been if you made the jump of your life.. its your life, not your life and your woman and her kids..
unless you lived together, were in a relationship where you were already engaged or even discussing marriage, as when you do get married one day, the worst part of a marriage is one that fails to discuss everything, if she is giving you difficulties on things that arent even part of a marriage, if opening your emotions to each other is seemingly difficult, then i would be scared when that time comes if it did when you do make that commitment with each other, that when you need to discuss things she will fall to this same emotion by getting "crazy" oi.. that is one of the leading things in any marriage that leads towards divorce..
lack of communication.. you seem to have that exact lack going for you right now.. and the main topic is your goals, your direction, and one that would share it with her family, and she seems very stand offish..
or maybe she is worried you might be turned by one of our super sexy local nyc latina babes who live near the columbia area.. yes i would lean more towards that..
she is scared to lose you.. and scared that if she says yes, she is just giving your the ticket to run away..
im not her.. and im a stranger.. but i ll say.. nyc is waiting for you, and most people i know never got the chance to goto grad school. let alone one of the top schools of its field..
best of luck, or rather, hit us up when you get to nyc.. we welcome you to our home with open arms.. while san diego chicks keep their arms firmly closed on your escape..
meh.. NYC CHICKS DESTROY ALL!!
get one for yourself.. at least they wont hold you back on your goals.. perhaps they would even push you harder to reach them..
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