Relationship Question

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    d_rek - thanks for the response and wow, I can definitely relate. Lingering exes are such a pain in the ass and now, they're something I am not going to tolerate. Little good can come from keeping one in your life and chances are that the reason our girlfriends haven't let go yet is because they can't or don't want to.

    I hope this doesn't worry you, but my previous girlfriend behaved very much like yours. She had a lingering psycho ex who wouldn't let go and she (and I) allowed him way too much access to her. She eventually got weak and the two of them slept together, which obviously ended what could have been a very good relationship.

    • You're the type that doesn't like when someone talks to their ex. Relationships may not work if one minds and the other doesn't.Jaline
    • I used to not be the kind that minded...and I can see that some communication is necessary. What I now have a problem with is lunches, dinners, and essentially dates. There's no place for that in my opinion.MondoMorphic

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