Relationship Question
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- monkeyshine0
Okay, this is going to sound harsh but oh man it needs to be said. You've only been together for 10 months and have lived together for 4 and are talking about marriage, etc. But you have nothing in common and you don't trust her. Dude, you're 35, not 22. With the kindest of intent, grow up!
You don't love her. You say it, but it's about something else...it's the idea of being in love; it's fear of being alone...it's something that has nothing to do with love. You sound like you are insecure. You've latched onto this person who for whatever reason has latched onto you. She's a mess and you're just hanging on hoping for what I'm not quite sure.
My advice would be to move out and go to individual therapy and encourage her to do the same. Again, no intention to be a jerk but if you were reading your words as someone else, you'd be thinking the same thing I'm thinking. Good luck.
- lol monkey. :)janne76
- I was reading his words as someone else and I wasn't thinking quite the same thing as that...kalkal
- well what were you thinking? It's like listening to a Christine McVie (Fleetwood Mac) song!monkeyshine
- See my commentskalkal
- Thats all I have to saykalkal