3.5 years down the shitter

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    Ive been there. 2.5 and lived together.
    she wanted a next step.

    I just couldn't do it. Dont get me wrong we had a great relationship and til this day she is the best girl/match I have met.

    But I don't regret braking it off... actually I feel better about it with each passing day.

    I remember how I felt when I was with her; like I said we had an awesome relationship. But at night I started having trouble sleeping, this feeling of me getting married and basically changing my life to that level bothered me very much. Which was a surprise to me because I always thought getting married was a thing I wanted to do.

    Couple months later I found myself living with my buddies having the time of our lives, I was doing what I wanted with out having to worry about another person. I traveled to different places in the world, got better work, hooked up with hot chicks, etc, etc.

    I'm not saying life is perfect, but I feel much better about my life than before.

    everyone is different, it all depends what you want out of life.

    I will say this, it was a very painful experience.
    you just gotta ride it out.

    Trust me things get better.

    good luck.

    • that's whats up. living your life without worrying about another person IS THE SHIT.sublocked

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