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i have no plans to see my parents this year.
my mother is awful and miserable. she is passive agressive and very abusive about it. we had an argument over a year ago, and she kicked me and my son out of the house. (my son was 2 and a half at the time) my mother is insulting and immature.
i speak with her occasionally but i have very little to do with her. my girlfriend cannot stand her and she knows it. i have not heard from my mother in 3 months. not at thanksgiving. not to call my son, not even to ask what any of us wanted for christmas this year.
she has been calling frantically the past 2 days and the only message she has left is that she wants to wish my son a merry christmas. not me. not my girlfriend or my family, but just her grandson. she has called me twice this morning and i'm sick of it.
what do i do? i am beyond angry at this point. it's becoming harrassing but i don't feel like i should have to lower myself to her level and have an argument about how she behaves on chritsmas.
and then there is my son. it's not his fault his grandmother is nasty. do i let him talk to her? that's just giving her exactly what she wants.
i'm tired of this shit.