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a lot of people are not ready for children until after they have one. when they say something clicks it's true. one day you just wake up to a wealth of knowledge that is collectively understood deep in our dna.
you know you are going to fuck something up royally, you are going to love it more than anything and it eventually will want less and less to do with you. it's terrifying and you could not ever be more pleased.
- Yeah, I'm pretty sure I am OK with having children later. More than animals, for sure.Jaline
- I know it's a fact that most people wouldn't want to lose their children for anything. When someone says they don'tJaline
- want children, and the other person in the relationship doesn't "think" they want children, that little bit of doubtJaline
- suggests that a child could be something you want. The other person (who doesn't want children) argued to me that if their man saysJaline
- their man says he doesn't know if he wants children, then they shouldn't have one. But, I think, at the same time, that uncertaintyJaline
- uncertainty could mean a child could be something positive. (not that a child could fix a relationship, of course).Jaline
- < that probably didn't make any sense. Nevermind if you don't get it.Jaline