Breakups
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- tedismyfav0
Just went through the same thing with my guy. Not nearly that long and no engagement but still believed he was the one I was supposed to be with.
I'd say stick close to a few good friends when you need extra help but other then that just take some time to be alone and clear your mind. It's a process you have to go through, you can't skip steps even if you want to. Don't feel like a coward...if you broke it off it was for a reason at least at the core that it didn't feel right.
I did also return all my ex's stuff. Burned pics to a cd and removed anything and everything that would be a constant reminder. The only wat to heal healthily is to start fresh. Remember what was good but don't forget to remember what was bad. Trust your decision was correct.
DO NOT attempt to drink it away or numb it. Thats temporary and eventually it'll come back and you'll have to deal down the road making it harder. Just keep keepin on and you'll be ok....I swear.
- and if not...email me and i'll talk to you about it. Always helps to have outside perspective.tedismyfav